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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This scenario happened to me almost exactly 2 years ago. Coworker affair for 1.5 years. We have 2 young kids. I went ballistic. We are divorced, and usually amicable now.

My advice - skip the useless couples therapy... skip having his passwords and ruining your mental health "monitoring" his phone... wondering what he's doing at work... where is he... why is he late... is that really a "work trip"... who is he calling... texting... eating lunch with. Am I pretty enough, sexy enough, exciting enough, loveable enough. You'll f-ing die inside.

Lawyer up, and then load him in the car and drop him off at HER house. He wanted this, he can have it.

You're worth more than this. NO I really dont think the sting of betrayal goes away. He tainted your marriage. It will never be the same.[/quote]

20:35 here. This is so true. Do you want to live your life with all the password nonsense and monitoring everything? Which is useless, because these days anyone with half a brain will have burner phones, throwaway emails, and an extra credit card the spouse doesn’t know about.[/quote]

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