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[quote=Anonymous]I am in a similar situation OP. I do everything with two toddlers and I work full time. My DH is a JERK!

Here is what I started to do to make myself happier/healthier:

1--I do not do his laundry or pick up after him. If his laundry is laying around in piles unfolded...I put it in his closet and shut his door. He bi****s and complains and I do nothing. When it really gets beyond disgusting, I send pictures to his father and tell him to tell his son to get his sh*t together.
2--I PAY for the cleaners to come twice a month and get the house ready for cleaners. I also cut 4 acres of lawn every week or so in the summer using a zero turn mower. 
3--I do not cook for him, I only cook for myself and the kids. I also do kids' laundry and my mom comes in once a week and helps me fold it. I put it away.
4--I take the kids to do fun stuff on weekends without asking his permission. I just tell him we're leaving to do so and so and off we go. I meet up with my parents or a friend at a park and we go and do something fun with the kids. 
5--I take care of my own car and pay my own bills, since I separated our finances last year.
6--I DO NOT have sex with him since he is really not a husband/partner, but a crappy roommate.
7--I stopped getting the kids ready in the morning and just pack everything for them the night before, lay their clothes out, and pack snacks for the ride home from daycare. I get myself ready for work in the am and I leave. DH can get the kids dressed and put them in the car.
8--We split bedtime at times, but most of the time is on me....which is ok since I do not have to deal with DH moaning and groaning.

I do not nag or ask about his business ever. I just ignore him.....the ship is finally TURNING slowly.....

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