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[quote=Anonymous]Prioritize. My DH has higher standards than I do. My house is neat and tidy, but not immaculately clean. I also let the laundry sit for a day before folding and wait until everyone’s on their last pair of underwear to do it. I’ll let a dirty pan sit in the sink until after dinner. DH can take care of these things immediately like he likes to, but 100% he cannot nag me about them because his standards are not normal. I prioritize spending time with my kids and being present for them. I also have stopped feeling guilty about sitting still. It’s abusive to live in a home where you feel you need to jump up and look busy when your spouse comes in the room. All that said, you need to sit him down and tell him you’re at a breaking point. Lay out how you want the house to work and take his feedback and ideas and compromise. It’s not work effing up your kids if you leave. [/quote]
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