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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s called karma. You lost OP.[/quote] That's why it stings. Karma's a b#tch.[/quote] Yep. If he does think of her, it’s “sux it b@tch! Look what I have now.”[/quote] She didn't believe in him and he succeeded nonetheless. He could be a perfectly nice guy with a nice family of his own. I doubt he ever thinks of op.[/quote] I see it differently. My conclusion is what OP said: she didn’t like the new person he was becoming. It was a good relationship. It was a season, not a lifetime. To see him now makes her wonder, but that is all. She is fine. I left my ex-husband because he became toxic. I hear stories of couples that healed from similar tragedy. It makes me wonder at times if I truly did the right thing. Once all of the cards are stacked against each other, I remain 100% confident in my choice. That is what allows for happiness when others experience a different outcome than you could ever imagine. Also, I have an ex much like OP’s. He will likely be a multi-billionaire. It could have happened with me, but I would be lonely and disenchanted. Like the PP who said she is in a home filled with diamonds and Lear jets but feels poor in spirit. There is nothing wrong with thinking or ruminating. The problem only occurs when you cannot differentiate between the past and the present, ans inaccurate data/conclusions/thoughts impact your current situation.[/quote]
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