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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op don’t listen these mean bitter people. Someone hurt them. 
It’s normal to wonder sometimes about about “what if’s” or have occasional envy, and anyone who claims otherwise is just lying. I have an ex who I do wonder about too,. I don’t actually wish things turned out differently, but it’s natural to think about the past sometimes. [/quote]

OP’s feelings are not normal.  If, as she says, she’s over him, she’s happily married, and she doesn’t care about money, then her ex BF’s sudden wealt would be no more than a passing thought, not a rumination.[/quote]

It is normal. What is not normal is that you are so angry about it. Project much?[/quote]

Cuckoo.  Maybe normal for perpetually unhappy people that settled in marriage.

There are certain types of people that are never happy with what they have and always want to blame somebody else for the way they feel.  They are masters at reinventing history.  Look at the past with rose colored glasses and always think about what might have been instead of putting that time and energy into fixing themselves and their marriage.[/quote]

NP. There are people that are that way. However nothing that op has described reflects that mentality in the least. People wonder if a different career, house, relationship etc may have changed their current standing. Wondering, asking for a reminder to be optimistic, and centering back to reality is 100% normal. There is a lot of projection of bias you’re putting out onto OP that just isn’t there.[/quote]

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