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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I realize I have made myself sound like an awful person. Perhaps I do hold some resentment towards her drama queen behavior that is making it hard for me to be sympathetic. Our relationship has always been one-sided with me constantly trying to talk her down, reassure and help her navigate life. I do need to push those feelings aside and be more supportive. Leave it do DCUM to hold people accountable. -OP[/quote] I’m just speechless that you believe she opinion shopped until someone gave her a diagnosis. It isn’t like she got a diagnosis and a prescription. They told her to have neurosurgery as multiple pp’s said. You probably weren’t listening to her when she told you the risks but I’m sure they told her there are plenty associated with her surgery - like maybe paralysis. I doubt a doctor would do this type of surgery unless it was absolutely needed, especially now since most hospitals are only doing life saving surgeries (at least where I live). I sure hope that your sister has at least one of your parents bc you are a poor substitute and that she has good friends who can help her after the surgery. You should leave her alone since you have zero sympathy for what she is going through. Have you needed her? Maybe you have a family op and could have used her help when your kids were young. Are you resentful that she was in college and wasn’t available to babysit like a good sister? You seem to have a big problem with her. Maybe you need therapy to find out why you don’t have an empathy chip. Or is it missing only with her? [/quote]
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