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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New poster, man here.  Almost sexless marriage early 40s.  Would not break up our marriage over sex, but I miss the flirting and romance.  I try to be a good husband, make good money, still in okay shape, listen to her but she seems content to just be roommates with kids.  My self worth has definitely taken a dive, but I know deep down it’s probably some hormonal shift with her body.  Any advice?[/quote]No, but just know you are not alone. This is my story too, word for word. Hang in man, hopefully it will pass.[/quote]

Absolutely terrible advice ^^. Hope is not a strategy, and failure to plan is a plan to fail. Address this like you would any urgent existential threat to your relationship, which it is. Surely you realize a normal healthy man cannot go without sex, and if you do not resolve this (quickly) divorce is certain.

Challenge your wife to explain (in clear/actionable terms) EXACTLY what prevents her from wanting a normal active sex life, and ask her to participate in making whatever joint changes are necessary to resume a normal active marital sex life (twice per week). If she persists in wanting to be your room mate, then open the marriage, and go get a girlfriend. Sexless is not sustainable so you must take some action to prevent divorce.[/quote]

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