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We don't know the entire situation.  You always want to blame Dad and make the mom look wonderful.  Why do you hate men so much?  Maybe you are the reason why Dad's give up as you are so mean and nasty.

Someone needs to file as she should not be sending money back and if its a hardship for him it makes more sense to change the order.  Its easy for her to do online.  No so easy for him as he'd have to file in court which costs money and attorney fees.

Maybe if she tried to work with Dad's wife, things would be better overall. [/quote]

No we don't, but you don't either.  OP is posting here with her information so that's what we react to.

The Dad's wife is not a party to this relationship. The father is the one who moved away and got married, effectively bringing another woman and their children into his first child's life.  It's on him to negotiate these relationships and make them work.

OP and Dad have a custody order.  If the order is for him to show up every other weekend, he needs to show up.  If he said he'll take the kid for the entire week, he has to take the kid for the entire week.  There is no excuse to not do what he is supposed to do. Dads have parental duties too and they need to take care of them like it's a job instead of demanding that the world rearranges itself around them so that they experience as little hardship as possible.  [/quote]

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