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[quote=Anonymous]If she's a good enough friend, you could tell her how you feel. Just say something like, I know you wrote with the best intentions -- thank you so much for caring about [son]. I hope you don't take this the wrong way but I felt hurt by your implicit claim that you know better than me how he is feeling and taken back by your judgment of my parenting decisions. I want to share that with you because our friendship is important, and I've never had that feeling with you before. I hope that you can understand why I would feel that way. The point is not that your son has allergies or that you're right. The point is that she overstepped her boundaries in your relationship and said some pretty hurtful things, about your work and your parenting decisions causing mental issues for your children. I think this probably needs to be addressed unless you want to drop the relationship and/or take some space. [/quote]
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