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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just had my first child and my miL is a lactation consultant. She gave us a breastfeeding class and I thought - ok that's what LCs do and that's very nice. No. Cut to two hours after the birth my miL is mauling my tits and my child. She came home with us from the hospital and every two hours more tit mauling. I know it's to get milk to come down but really - hands the fuck off. The worst was the second day after birth I developed a severe infection and had to go to the ER. She came there to help with the baby. And, while I was sitting in a room in horrible excruciating pain, with someone vomiting in the next bed, mil came in with a breast pump which she insisted I use. And felt up my tits again for good measure. I cried through the entire thing. I havent let her near me since and refuse to discuss anytiing about my daughters care with her. Honestly, it's completely turned me 
 off to breastfeeding and I still feel so violated I don't want 
to be around her. I'm still doing it Tho[/quote]

this is funny, but i am also so sorry. it really sucks that you are feeling so violated (and are being so violated). is there a way to say look i really appreciate it your intentions and want to do everything i can to breastfeed, but given our relationship im feeling like it might be better to have a non family member LC? do you have any pals you can trade services with? it's akin to me to having an OB whose my FIL... good luck.[/quote]

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