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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, they don't have a key or any ownership at all in the house. They often go through my parents for whatever reason even as they refuse to acknowledge that I exist or speak to me. Would you really make your husband come home early from a work trip? I don't think I can do that but I will keep my house locked.[/quote] Making your husband come home early is less dramatic than calling the police![/quote] NP, and come on. This is stressful, but manageable. Why jeopardize DH's reputation/career for this when it only takes one person to call the police. If they are likely to smash windows to enter, bring a firearm, or something else that could hurt you before help can arrive then that's a different story. Keep yourself away from them - you have the advantage of knowing they are coming, so 1. change your locks, and 2. take your kids and go someplace else that day and don't tell anyone in your family where that is (since no one seems to be able to stand up to these people). Cheaper and less dramatic than a showdown or pulling a partner back home from a work trip on their own dime. If you have a ring or other way of recording them remotely, do it and call the police if they break and enter. [/quote]
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