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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree, I think we are not hearing key information like why they are so desperate to come.  Perhaps they think you are unhinged and your family agrees?  (You do sound a little unhinged, involving the police in this if you are in no physical danger).  Just send a text, copy your family, stating why you don’t feel safe and so will not let them in.[/quote]

You think I should email them after my husband emailed them???  I will but it seems crazy to stir up more drama instead of just calling the cops if they show up after he already told them not to.[/quote]

I’m trying to empathize with thinking that *calling the police* would be less drama, but it’s hard.

Imagine the poor officer having to come to your home because you can’t communicate. [/quote]

actually this is a good reason to call the police. it is not "because you can't communicate", if what OP describes is true, it is not fair to put the blame on her or her DH. they communicated clearly, the other party does not take no for an answer. if i tell you that tomorrow i am going to show up at your house and stay for a week and you tell me no you cannot stay at my house, and I show up anyway and insist that you open the door because I am there, I am sure you would call the police and you would not consider this a lack of communication. I dont know if OP is making things up but I met crazy people in my life include people who did awful things to family member. a close relative died recently of terminal cancer. when she found out she was sick the first thing she did was going to a notary and signing a document that her mom and older sister was not allowed to make any decision for her (cancer was in the brain) and was not even allowed to get close to her at home or at the hospital. and she had good reasons unfortunately. if you dont have crazy family members does not mean others are so lucky.

if these people show up at the door, OP should not open and should call 911. they should cut ties with the ILs and get a restraining order. the ILs hurt the DH and the daughter? enough is enough they can be dealt by the police[/quote]

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