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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know my husband cheated but I don't have proof, other than money he spent and won't account for and change in behavior/weird comments that were out of character. He lied on multiple occasions, though again I have no "evidence."  He stopped doing whatever he was doing, closed bank accounts and reluctantly ( a battle that took several years) gave me access to all accounts. He is much nicer now, which further confirms my belief that he was having some kind of affair.

I saw several therapists in the past few years to help me deal with all the negative feelings and to decide what I wanted to do. I got to the point where I wanted to leave and started to think about logistics and my DH started to realize that I could seriously leave. Things are better but I won't ever trust my DH like I used to. As COVID restrictions end and he returns to work and goes out more, I find myself with this nagging worry and need to double check what he is doing.

Not sure this is helpful, but count yourself lucky that you have proof your DH was cheating. I would make sure you have access to all financial records.  Affairs cost money and bank accounts are a great way to monitor even if it does not provide hard evidence.[/quote]

But sometimes they cost nothing.  My spouse met at AP’s house in the middle of the work day/lunch break.  He spent zero $ on her.[/quote]

When are you leaving this psychopath?[/quote]

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