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[quote=Anonymous]I kinda know what you mean. I truly understand what you mean when you say you smile and then later cry yourself to sleep. I m sorry...
The only advise I have for you is you can't change someone; some ppl process certain things differently. Accept this! Dont even let yourself start thinking in this direction.  Just do the logic/planning/critical thinking part yourself.  Instead of expecting him to be good at what u already are good at, focus on his strong qualities. That way you complement each other. I mean, obviously, you know that intelligence is not enough in a relationship (based on ur father). So, there must be something else u must have liked about him. Most importantly, think about how much he loves you. And the thing with life is, it doesn't matter how right or wrong you got something; it's how much you enjoyed your life. If you notice bad stuff and sweat it eventually you end up only focusing on the bad qualities and ruin your happiness and his. Also, try a little exercise where you normally check on him on some tasks, let go one time every week. Even if he screws up, you can't say Anything. EVER.  You cant think about it, analyze it or anything. Just tell yourself, i will appreciate/ trusts this cuz it's my partners effort. This wil steer you in the right direction. I also recommend the book, don't stressvthe small stuff. 
Good luck to you![/quote]

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