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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As I said I am not leaving unless forced or somehow can’t handle the situation till my oldest graduates high school. I will feel better as well knowing for sure it’s the right decision. I am not that young and a couple of years likely won’t matter in the long run. I will look for a better therapist and ask him the questions posted here. Lots of people leave their spouses after a child leaves the house. It wouldn’t be that awkward then either. [/quote]

My cheating ex DW was a compulsive liar and had issues with her family both of which I only discovered through marriage counseling. But  I will join the chorus and say that in general it’s a waste of time and just serves to benefit the cheater. If I had my time again I would go to individual counseling first.  You need to figure your own goals and look at ‘you’.  That way you can make a more informed decision about about your choice to stay or leave.  Btw I don’t get why you’d stay until the kid leaves. It sounds good in theory but gains you nothing in the long term.[/quote]

Because other than the cheating he is a good husband and father. He tells me he loves me and is working to improve. He does a lot for us all, takes care of the house, finances, drop offs, and our special needs child needs a lot of help. The cheating has stopped or at least I don't know about it and its minimized if at all. I just don't have the time. It's an issue that hasn't gone away, but life still goes on.[/quote]

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