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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP, but 10 months of dating, during a pandemic, no ability to travel, the reason you cite as loving her is because she stuck by you while you were sick (?), and you make "great" money plus are planning to spend $50k on a ring and have never talked to her about it.....

It is statistically extremely unlikely that your marriage will last! Get a prenup, spend $25k.  Sorry, but in 8 years you'll be thinking back on this thread with frustration and anger.  [/quote]

OP here. It’s a short time but we are older and have experienced enough to know when it’s the real deal. I love her for sticking by my side, but that isn’t the only reason. I love her because she is my best friend. Her ability or make me laugh and just feel so content and comfortable is an amazing feeling. She is so sweet and kind. She is sexy as hell and the sex is the best I’ve ever had. There are so many more reasons why I’m in love with her.

We have talked about marriage and kids many times. I have not told her when I’m going to propose, but she knows that it will happen. We are in love and very serious. I do not need a prenup. I want to give her the best and spending money on a ring that I know she will love is important to me. She deserves it.

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How old are you? How much do you make? $50k on a ring is insane. But if you have money to burn then go for it. [/quote]

OP here. She is 32 and I’m 37. I make close to 300k/year. She makes a little over 100k/year. I have no debt ( besides mortgage and car payment) and have large savings. I don’t have to spend $50k. That’s just the max amount. [/quote]

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