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[quote=Anonymous]When you talk about the burden always being on the wife, you make it sound like you are in some predetermined script, that plays on a loop. SPEAK UP. Say it is unfair. Did he agree to you getting the degree (or at least go along, do not mean you need his permission). Then the should have been an acknowledgement that being in school takes time besides work. Maybe that means he can't do fishing trips while you are a student? He has to make this possible. The kids needs are non-negotiable. It is NOT all on your unless you buy into that crazy formula. If he is not open to the discussion, you need marriage counselling. You have taken on more than is possible, and I know you are trying as much as humanly possible. He is NOT a good partner right now. Tell him what you need and expect. You have a voice and some rights.[/quote]
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