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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like my mama always said "marry them young and train them hard" :lol:[/quote]
So... why is it that it is up to women to "train" the husbands?  Who trained us? Why is it that we can see what needs to be done and do it without being given a chore list?  My husband will gladly "help out" if I give him a very specific list of what needs to be done... but the fact that I have to tell him what to do and that he still sees it as "assisting" in my domain makes me extremely angry.  Did women in the 1960s and 1970s, when many more were entering the workforce have to be "trained" in how to behave and perform in business?  No - women entered the workforce, killing it in every way possible, while still keeping the lion's share of home responsibilities.  We are doing something very wrong in our society if many men STILL need to be told what to do or are still unable to complete basic home tasks.[/quote]

NP. This is part of training them. I had to actually say to my new husband, when you finish up the TP or the trash is full, you need to get a new roll or bag. It’s rude and disrespectful to make me do all these things. Do it when the issue arises. [/quote]

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