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Reply to "WWYD: Husband won't let me work part-time"
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[quote=Anonymous]A few things. First, you give him all of the power in this scenerio. you say he has an office but you don't. Change that. You say he will have a vaild reason to be mad if drop to part time but discount that YOU have a valid reason to be mad at him not doing a damn thing right now You say that both of you need to be able to afford part time for anyone to do it. Well then start looking at houses and tell him to get ready to move because you are both switching to part time. You say that you both must work full time and you must continue to do all of this crap. Nope. Hire it out and give him the bill. Once it costs more for you to keep working than for you to drop to PT he will ask you to do so. YOU actually have the power in the scenerio not him. He wants the status quo to stay the same but has no power to make it. YOU have the power to stop doing what you are doing for free. And YYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. I hate that woman are stuck as both the primary parent and have to financially contribute. WHat i wouldn't give for my husband to work a job that had a pension for our retirement AND made enough for us to live in a nice place in the suburbs with 2.5 kids and a dog while I could stay home and cook. [/quote]
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