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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make a ton of money.   A fair amount of women would be willing to do the bulk of of the child/household work, so long as you make plenty to provide a good lifestyle and house help when she needs/wants it, since you aren’t willing to pitch in.  She will also want to make sure, in the event of divorce, that her “half” will be still be a lot and keep her comfortable , since she pretty much gave up a career and even if she goes back to work, so won’t make nearly what she could have or once did.[/quote]

OP here. I was in a relationship that just ended here I thought I found the one. We were very in love and happy but she refused to sign a prenup. I own multiple businesses and have a decent net worth. A prenup is non-negotiable. Most women do not want to sign one. [/quote]

Of course.  Think about what you are asking.  You want someone to give up her career entirely, and with it the means of providing for herself for decades.  And at the same time, you want her to sign away any rights to assets she could use to support herself.

[b]Thinking about it in terms that you may understand better, you are asking someone to give up a career.  You need to compensate her for that.[/b]   [/quote]

Good idea.  OP, you're basically asking her to join your unproven start-up as COO, commit to work 60 hr+/week, sign an 18-30 year exclusive non-compete, get zero equity while you retain 100%, but be satisfied that you're going to bring free lunch in on Fridays.  Is that a good deal?  It is not.

You say you want to divide the labor but your insistence on a prenup shows you think of her labor (and commitment to sacrifice her own ability to support herself) as meaningless.[/quote]

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