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[quote=Anonymous]Do you love your dh? Did you marry for better or worse? Richer and poorer? Sickness and health? If the answer is no, get out but you will have to find some way to support yourself. If yes, talk to your dh and develop a plan. Did he just get laid off due to the Covid economy? Lots of people did. Is he looking for a job? Networking? Are you? If you live in the DMV, have you thought about moving to a LCOL area where it might be easier for you to be a SAHM bc the cost of housing is so much lower. But you need to look for some sort of job now to help with expenses. Look, your situation isn’t unique. We have been through layoffs, cancer, other illnesses, special needs kids (definitely can’t predict that) but it has all worked out and dh now makes more money than ever and I work very part time. If I had given up on him 20 years ago at the first bump in the road, I wouldn’t have the family or the life I have. We will be celebrating 25th anniversary soon. Think about whether this is your person. If not, go.[/quote]
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