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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do you have a nanny with a stand-at-home parent? That makes no sense? DH needs to step it up, big time. I'd never put up with such attitude.

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She’s been with us for ten years, since our oldest was born. 
DH was trying to do a start up and that fizzled so we never really talked about. 
Our DCs go to two different schools and I used to travel for work so it’s just one of those things, it’s a luxury to have her but honestly she’s much more reliable than DH! [/quote]
 
Your husband is lazy. The only reason he had a job before was the structure. The lack of structure of being a SAP is not good for him. I think you're better off sending him back to work even for meager $ and paying another nanny to pick up his tiny slack at home if you need it. Literally, his pay could go to the other nanny/helper. I know it sounds crazy, but he needs something to do, and someone to tell him and that is a JOB. Otherwise, keeping him on track, occupied and contributing will be yours. You'll have to manage your husband to get him take responsibility in the house. Do you need a second job, OP?[/quote]

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