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Reply to "Long term affair... trying to wrap my head around if it’s even possible to get over your DH’s 3 yr "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affair. I don’t have all the details but he has confessed it was highly sexual. Married 15 years, two kids. [/quote] I don't know. At this point, I'd ask him to move out for at least six months, get therapy, etc. This really depends on how your relationship was before. [/quote] Serious question - Before what? Let's say the relationship "before" was great! If this is before he confessed, do you want to go back there - when he was being deceptive, lying, thinking about someone else even while you were completely in the dark? If this is before the affair, do you want it like it was back then - in 2017 - when you both were 2 different people. I'd think that even in the most faithful marriage, things change over the years and the people are not the same as they were 3 years ago. [/quote]
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