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[quote=Anonymous]Your husband is immature.[/quote]

[quote]Nope[/quote]
disagree. OP should have been honest. Her husband being upset at the lie is reasonable. Being pissed is an overreaction. OP also indicates that DH would have been upset at ex just being at the house. Disproportionate anger and expecting spouse to not have friendships with former exes  is immaturity.[/quote]

Being pissed is not an overreaction. She invited an ex to their home and flat out lied to DH about who he was. He was obviously "pissed" about that as he should have been. That is very likely what lead to his comments about her bringing an ex to their home. His anger was neither disproportionate nor immature. [b]If the gender roles were reversed we would not be having this conversation[/b].[/quote]

Why do you have to take it there?

It wouldn't surprise me if you were a person who would write: I bet the ex-boyfriend was black and the OP's husband is white.  If the ex-boyfriend was white, we wouldn't be having this conversation.  See how that works?  Don't take it there and create additional drama when the original drama is drama enough.  [/quote]

I call it like I see it based on what I've seen on the forum. I haven't seen anything on DCUM about the racist BS you referenced, so no I wouldn't have written that.

See how that works?[/quote]

No, I don't see how your example works because it is not analogous to the previous examples.  If you haven't seen any of the racist (and sexist) fear mongering on DCUM, you must be new here.  Point is, keep your flip your gender script drama to yourself.  Stick with the story at hand.  [/quote]

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