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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know other people aren't like this but my spouse and I both invited former boyfriends/girlfriends to our wedding.  I like two of my spouse's former romantic partners more than my spouse does.  [/quote]

Plenty of people are like this.  That's not what happened here.  OP invited an ex to the house, didn't tell DH that it was her ex (before, during, or after) and he looked like an idiot when her GF was like "that's so cool that you're fine with guys she's had sex with hanging out at your house during a pandemic!"

You're not uniquely enlightened, you're just not a liar like OP.[/quote]

This! It's not like OP's husband got upset about some guy in their friend group who happened to have a romantic past with OP. OP dredged up some guy she used to be intimate with because she wanted to "reconnect with him" and lied to her husband about who he was when he resurfaced. OP, what you did is the opposite of "letting sleeping dogs lie." Letting sleeping dogs lie would have been to not initiate contact with this guy from your past out of the blue. OP, you stirred the pot and created drama.

My husband and I each have one previous partner who we're still friends with, but OP was wrong, wrong, wrong in this situation. The difference is that for us, we dated someone, ended it, stayed friends with the person, then met each other, and were honest with each other about our past relationships.

Oh, and OP, your "friend" who spilled the tea to your husband isn't your friend. Watch out for her, especially now that you undermined your relationship with your husband.[/quote]

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