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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just tell the guy up front before you get  married tnat he wont be getting regular sex after kids and a few years of marriage. Give him the info he needs to make an informed choice before pledging monogamy. It's the bait-and-switch aspect of all this that  leaves some men feeling resentful.[/quote]

LOL, if anyone had told me in my early 20s that I would lose my libido in my 30s I would have laughed at them.  You think women have a crystal ball on this shit!?[/quote]

+1 I don’t know any women who acted interested in sex while dating on purpose to get a ring. Dating is sexy. Getting married is sexy. Having infant children who take all your time and energy and a pouting husband who is essentially child number 3 is not. [/quote]

All of this.  Put simply dating and getting married and fun and freedom. Being married and having kids are wonderful but not in the least sexy.

It's like the old joke about why wives are smiling on their wedding night (it's the last BJ they ever have to give).

So then why such an emphasis on sexual monogamy? I think emotional and financial monogamy should be enough. Free willie!

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