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Marital bed is a nice phrase for sex. They can have sex elsewhere. If it is about intimacy thats a separate issue. Also not all successful couples share beds. [/quote]

Your husband is jealous, and wants to tell himself that his son is 'fine' and that he (your DH) 'needs you more' !  Your husband is a grown man who is not as emotionally mature as he thinks he is.  He's had however many years to learn to self-soothe and he still can't?  You're not his teddy bear.  You are his wife and you're also your and his son's mother.  This is how all the corrosive man-up & competitive stuff starts.[/quote]

You can have sex elsewhere. but why  should you, when the bedroom is a perfectly reasonable place.

I also challenge the idea that  marital bed is all about sex, some of my best, most vulnerable, and deepest conversations have occurred at bedtime.

OP has said her son does not need the cosleeping, she does it because she feels guilty about not breastfeeding, that to me is a toxic motherhood.[/quote]

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