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[quote=Anonymous]This sucks. I'm sorry. I'm not one to say that cheating should automatically lead to divorce. Relationships get complicated. But it sounds like you don't have much respect for your husband in general. Not judging. From a lot of what you've said, it doesn't sound like he deserves much.

I would also say that one text message isn't everything to go on, but I admit it seems like 99% something was going on. Would you stay with him if he admitted it and stopped it or is that something you could never accept? I guess I'm asking if you WANT to try and save things? It would probably be less financially painful, although it does seem like your husband has not been great up until now with financial decisions.

I think I would definitely talk to your parents. I know I would if it was me--especially because they are basically living in the same house as you. Could they watch your kids so you could go back to work more, or is that not possible because of COVID? Also, do you have any close friends you trust who have been through divorce? They might be able to guide you. I'm sorry. [/quote]

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