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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm in VA.  I'm trying to think through why it bothers me so much. Part of it is my vision of him going to some seedy supplier, getting caught, getting arrested, etc.  We just made some big purchases, (house, car) so we've been trying to be more frugal,  Then I think of him spending on pot. But, I'm trying to find a way to be open-minded. Work can be stressful for sure. Part of me thinks that this is an old college habit that most professional adults grow out of, but I'm sure I'm naive there.  
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My friend's first husband was in AA but smoked pot, which at the time made perfect sense to us (this was some decades ago). But the marriage wasn't great, and when they went to buy their first house, she discovered the down payment had vanished. She said then that she hated pot because it was so much easier to hide than drinking. She didn't stay married to him very long after she had to get an emergency loan from her mother for the house closing. [/quote]

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