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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, some of y'all are shady af. If OP didn't say she was white and inlaw was Hispanic, y'all would absolutely be telling her she has no obligation pay for them, WHICH SHE DOESN'T.

I understand OP. My family is South Asian and when there are certain major expenses back home, we get phone calls for help with expenses. I'm talking from second, third cousins, not just main family members. Sometimes we help, sometimes we don't. It's MY money and if I wanted to give $0, within my right too. [/quote]
This x 100
My DH family lives in Europe and they used to think nothing of asking us for money for all kinds of things until they got the point that we weren't footing the bill for weddings, funerals, baptisms, cars, etc.
OP is under NO obligation to pay for her SIL's extended family to go to a funeral. Would all of you piling on to the OP be willing to shell out international airfare for 10 people that you barely know? Flights from DC to PR run about $400 RT. Maybe OP doesn't have an extra 4K just sitting around. [/quote]

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