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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I wanted to give an update to everyone. We are back together. We had a long talk about everything and have decided to put this behind us. I do feel stupid and like I should have waited. We had multiple talks and I was upfront about what I wanted, and then we hen it happened, I worried. I wasted two years in my former relationship with the same talks and then nothing ever happened. I eventually ended that relationship. I didn’t want that to happen again and I rushed it. I do love him and I’m in love with him. He is the man I want to spend my life with. I guess I did this because I really wanted to know how he would feel about losing me and if really felt the same way. He said he was going to propose Memorial Day weekend ( my birthday) but everything was shutdown because of the pandemic. He wanted to do something really special. He showed me he has been looking at rings and was even communicating months back online with jewelers. We have decided get engaged soon and then move in with him. I’m glad I got him back. He was hurt but he said he really respected me for standing up for myself. He found it sexy. [/quote]

Good for you two! Thanks for sharing an update, too many people don’t report back after they get advice. It’s nice when things work out. [/quote]

+1. I didn't do this exactly like you did OP but when my now husband missed the deadline I had been clear about we had a VERY rocky 3-4 months where I was seriously considering breaking up with him and he knew it. A lot of people were like, 'its wrong to give ultimatums' and I kind of agree but I also think these situations are really different. The only thing I did was inform my DH of where my head was at so he could make an informed decision. The reality was I would move on if he didn't propose, its an ultimatum but it was also just the truth.

Many women sit around waiting for a guy for years and years and they end up miserable. Take control of your life I say! Although next time maybe just have a 'very serious' conversation instead of breaking up.[/quote]

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