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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]No eating out. No vacations. No activities for your kids. No splurges. No new clothes. No going to the movies. No replacing things that get broken that aren't necessities. No upgrading phones. No streaming services.
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This is how I grew up.  Nice house.  Nothing else.  It also means extreme stress in every recession or downturn.  Even as a kid, I constantly worried that we'd end up homeless because there was no padding.  It was our really nice house or, if my dad lost his job, our car.[/quote]

As a a kid, why were you burdened with the knowledge of your parents' finances? My kids are completely unaware of our financial situation. [/quote]

This post is so privileged it's essentially nonsense.  Only middle class and up kids get the option to be unaware of their family's financial situation.  It's hard to be oblivious to having your house foreclosed on, having cars that break down all the time, moving when your rent goes up, not being able to afford school trips and instrument rental fees, etc ad nauseum.  Money is the thing that shielded you from your parents' financial decisions, not discretion.  If you had to eat ramen the last week of every month you would know you were poor, even if your parents never sat you down to say "we are poor, I expect you to deal with that reality."[/quote]

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