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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate the replies from the men who answered my question about sexless marriages. I'm really sorry about your situations and hope things improves between your wives.[/quote]

Thanks, it is what it is.  It's not going to improve.  I used to hold out hope that after the infant, toddler, elementary school years, etc it would improve but it hasn't, it's gotten worse.  Even after she got off BC, still worse.

There is this perception that some people just get fat or there are issues in the marriage but some people really just lose their drive and it's no one's fault.[/quote]

+1. Similar situation. It's far from ideal, but my marriage has a lot of positives that offset the minimal sex to some degree. You take the good with the bad.  I think it's important for people to understand that sometimes it's a less than pleasant part of marriage that can happen without anyone being particularly at fault. It's easy to perceive lack of sexual interest by a spouse as an act of malice or as commentary on one's own worth. And sometimes it is that! But other times, it's just not. [/quote]

We are in our late 50’s and my wife and I still have sex once and sometimes twice a week. She definitely seems to enjoy it and she will initiate maybe 25% of the time. If if it’s pity or obligation sex she is good at faking it but regardless I enjoy it. I’m certainly not going to ask her. [/quote]

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