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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what you're not understanding is that your boyfriend probably can't do what you want him to do.

First, most auto insurers won't cover someone who doesn't hold a U.S. drivers license.

Second, even if he could add you as a driver on his insurance policy, that would only apply to his own vehicle, not to you driving your own separate vehicle.

Third, you generally cannot add a car owned by someone else to your own insurance policy, so he couldn't have added your new car to his policy in order to get your coverage.

In sum, since you didn't already have a U.S. drivers license, he probably was stuck and couldn't help you, even if he wanted to.[/quote]

Ok I understand if he maybe couldn’t do it law wise
But don’t you think he should have told me himself?
He could have said oh I called geico and I can’t do it sorry
I’d say ok no problem thanks for TRYING
But he didn’t even try
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Look, I'm sorry this is causing you distress.  The explanation is simple - it always is.  He didn't do it because he doesn't want to do it.  The why is not important.  It's not important what he told you before.  He routed you to his mom because you failed to take the hint he was channeling toward you.  Men do not like to be direct with women because contrary to what women say (just tell me!), their experiences in this sphere tell them otherwise.  When a man avoids doing something he promised to do, it means he doesn't want to do it, and it also means the original promise was extracted under duress.  You may think he gave you a promise joyfully, but it is sadly not the case.  He said he will do it to avoid the argument he foresaw taking place if he declined.

Again, I'm sorry.  This knowledge is not pleasant. But you must learn to read men.[/quote]

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