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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sitting here alone, rejected by my wife again, sex 2x in 2020 and I have no idea what the point is of a celibate marriage.

So I am done.  But she is a SAHM, 13 years now.  Economy sucks, she needs a job.  We are both stuck.

Of course, if I cheat, I'm am the bad guy, not her.

Thanks for the vent.  I would swap places with the PP who at least got a romantic trip to France with hot sex.  Better than a celibate guest room.[/quote]

Give her an ultimatum: divorce, open marriage or she resumes sex. Since she’s economically dependent from you, there is a lot of leverage. I am a SAHM who’s economically  dependent on and rejected by husband. For me, the only way to go is to get a job and file for divorce. You are in a better position. [/quote]

We had this discussion, she steps it up for a short period, pouts when having sex and then resentment grows.

I have thought about divorce but I want to be present for the last few years before the kids are older and independent.  Then I can leave.  The strange thing is she will show me places we should buy a place at to semi-retire to, and it amazes me it never seems to dawn on her she isn't going to be retiring with me at this rate.

Thanks for your suggestions, if only it were that easy.[/quote]

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