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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Personally, you are dodging a huge bullet here. Don't put up or give a second thought to this middle school behavior. Why did you even stick around when she was bad mouthing others to you? [/quote]

OP - there is a group like this in many places (not all, thankfully). Usually, they have not moved from their home town, and want to claim their "turf".  Yes, this is the level (or lack) of maturity you are dealing with. I don't know why you would be surprised that they turned on you, when you actively took part in their deceit, anger, lies and general meanness. The woman (stunted girl) I know who does this effs with people in the neighborhood who make her look bad (which is really not difficult) - she tells lies about whomever it is, like "so and so doesn't like/get along with anyone!" - because IRL, that is how SHE (not the other person) is, and she is trying desperately to deflect from how awful and mean spirited she really is.  She just never learned how to accept or like herself, she is terribly insecure, and is only happy with her minions who are equally insecure.  OP, you need to learn how to become a better and more mature person and stay far away from the immature, stunted, sneaky, passive aggressive, drama prone people.

You are missing nothing, this isn't high school, this is real life, and you are supposed to be enjoying it with good people, not terrible people. Surround yourself with positive. Drama lady senses your insecurities, you are insecure like her, that is why she liked you. Look in the mirror and reassess, seriously.[/quote]

Agree. I had a similar experience with a "hometown" girl who wants to run the show and anyone who plans something is seen as a threat to her. She also makes comments about how people "don't belong" because they aren't from the area, like that is a bad thing. [/quote]

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