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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t disclose OP. It’s over and it’s never going to happen again. You’re human and people make mistakes. I would prefer not to know, especially if marriage is going well and it really wasn’t happening ever again. [b]There seem to be a lot of people on here with an ax to grind.[/b] [/quote]

It's more that a lot of cheated on people who got divorced are justifiably angry at how many couples are blissfully ignorant of the infidelity in their marriage.  Like, they have to deal with the divorce, split custody, financial hit, stigma, yet a huge % of marriages have infidelity but it never gets exposed so they get to live happily ever after.

I get the impulse to level the playing field.  But assuming OP has kids, keep it to herself/himself and don't do it again.  No use hurting the kids unnecessarily at this point.[/quote]

A huge percentage do not have affairs.  It’s less than 25%.  That’s something cheaters tell themselves to justify their vile actions.[/quote]

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