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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some scorned women in this world. Keeping the phone or a PP
said, “When you go, leave the phone someplace awesome.”
We don’t give a rats azz about being exposed as a cheater. Like it’s some dirty little secret? BFD, it happens all the time. [/quote]

Really? You don’t care if friends, neighbors, families get sent copies of your dirty pics and texts?

Okay [/quote]

What would be the point of that? Why would anyone subject these people to such a thing?[/quote]

To humiliate the cheater.  I sent it to his mom.[/quote]

That isn’t humiliation. It’s being vindictive and dragging others into your shit. All you did was succeed in making yourself look cray and justifying his actions in stepping out.[/quote]

NP, I don’t think it’s crazy if she mentions cheating to friends/family.  I don’t get your thought process of not revealing cheating at all.  If it’s not a big deal then let people know in a factual, non-dramatic way.  It’s just facts.  I would want to know if someone is a cheater.  It tells you something about that person (it may not tell you anything but it does tell me something). 
Me[/quote]

Thought process is they want to remain being a dirt-ball in secret while projecting a clean fake image to everyone else.  The betrayed spouse is under zero obligation to keep up this fallacy.  In fact, therapists recommend exposure.  Without exposure they will never change.  They still might not even with exposure, but shining a light on their deceitful low moral behavior often shakes them out of there entitled fog.[/quote]

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