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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I divorced 3 years ago and have dinner once a week with exDH and DD. Sometimes one of us cooks, sometimes we go out, but we make it a point to have a family meal. I do not invite my significant other as this is DDs time with her parents.

I would never date someone that doesn’t understand that while I’m divorced, this is my DDs family and her parents get along.

Yes, we’re also one of those families that still does holidays together.[/quote]

I think this is great.[/quote]

Yeah no

I wouldn’t be ok with that

And I wouldn’t do that with my ex as I think it would confuse my DS and make him think his parents might get back together[/quote]

I do not think it is confusing. I plan to do that with my ex once in awhile with kids forever. There is no romantic relationship. We can do the business of kids. [/quote]

Since you still get along so well together, you should have stayed married to save your kids a lifetime of misery from your divorce. And yes, it will give your kids hope and let them continue the fantasies of having a real, intact family again.

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 No, it was a horrible marriage. Kids did not need to see that part. We are adults and can act like normal people in front of the kids. Staying married would have caused far more future emotional damage.[/quote]

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