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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so angry and resentful and thinking this is the end of our marriage. I’ve tried to get passed it but it’s unbelievable that after two very difficult pregnancies he expects me to be the one to have surgery and take responsibility. I’ve had an IUD intermittently for 15 years and I’m done with hormones altogether. I don’t know how to get passed this...[/quote]

get a tubal ligation. problem solved.

The person who doesn't want kids needs to take care of it.[/quote]
TL is  much more invasive, more expensive, and has a longer recovery than a vasectomy.

Men should also take some responsibility for birth control.  Enough of them certainly don't take care of their children (deadbeat dads).

Make him wear a condom then.  And OP should also wear a female condom.  See how the man likes that.  I find most men don't like condoms.[/quote]

Or he can just move on from a drama queen.[/quote]
OP doesn't want an invasive procedure. Her DH doesn't want a less invasive procedure, but she's the drama queen? Ok.

You have to be a troll or an MRA. Either way, you are making men come across as aholes.

Luckily, plenty of men are willing to get themselves snipped and take on the birth control responsibility.  My DH was willing to do this because I told him that after #2 DC, I was going to stop taking the pill (which made me have health issues), and that now it was his turn, after many years of me taking care of birth control. He could use a condom or get a v.

In the end, I gt a TL because I had a csection. But, he was willing to do it, unlike some ahole men. [/quote]

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