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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Find someone you really LIKE. Liking your mate helps for the down periods in the relationship.[/quote] That was my problem. I’m one of the pps and I really liked, loved, adored and respected my husband. We were both head over heels and my friends and family adored him. Extremely compatible, both good careers, same interests. I knew his dad was f@cked up and left his mother when he was 7. He hated his dad and swore he would end up nothing like him, never cheat. I heard this could be a red flag, but the package otherwise was perfect. I found at year 20 of marriage that I ended up married to his father (not the alcohol part), but narcissistic (and actual clinical diagnosis) and cheater. 70% of men with cheating fathers cheat. If there divorce and other issues in their childhood too—just walk. It’s sad, but epigenetics and trauma will emerge eventually.[/quote]
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