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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. Make sure you both are on the same page with regards to money - who earns it, who spends it, the lifestyle, the long-term goals, the priorities, etc. [b] 2. (I know I am going to get flamed for it but here it goes) Stay clear from the guys with ADHD, executive functioning issues, etc. unless it’s clearly proven that they can hold their shit together under a moderate amount of stress. You don’t want to be their required accommodation to life. [/b] 3. Never assume anything about what others think how the marriage works - if it’s important to you, say it out loud.[/quote] I agree with all of these points but especially the bolded. 75% (my unscientific guestimate) of the threads on DCUM about husbands not pulling their weight can be attributed to the bolded. I would add that it's important to know yourself and what you want from life and a partner before making a lifetime commitment to another person. [/quote]
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