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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is not that critics think divorce can’t happen . It us just that gifts should not come with strings. This is a family occasion not a business transaction. She is an adult forming her own nuclear family. The gift is a down payment on her judgement. It us based on hope and could be lost, but it is an investment in this couple’s future. It will make her think you believe in them long term if you take the risk. If it does not pan out, it won’t be because the in-laws weren’t all in. She us not a child that you are loaning the money to. She is an adult deciding to form a legal union, and you want to set them up for every success. Let go if the money and care about the people.[/quote] These are not strings . The money is an investment, a financial vehicle, not a gift. It's important to protect everyone's interest. That's also why there are pre nups. [/quote]
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