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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorced two years. Male. Happy. Kids with me most of the time despite 50/50 on paper; they prefer me. As they get older they see in my ex what drove us to divorce.

The most interesting thing to me is my complete lack of desire to date. I tried once or twice but I just ... don’t... care. I would rather spend time with my kids or be solo or with friends.

Didn’t see that one coming.[/quote]

Were you cheated on? I am a female who was cheated on and I have no real desire to date either. And I'm not even 40 yet. Sigh.[/quote]

Yes, I was. I'm also 48 and just … tired. I did date one woman briefly and found myself just not really enjoying it or feeling "ready." I think I did it because I thought it was something I was supposed to do. But then it became clear she wanted to move her and her daughter in with me and my kids, and I finally drew a line and told her no one was ever moving in, certainly not before both my kids were in college. She left the next day and was paired up with someone new three weeks later, so what I learned from that is women (my ex-wife included) generally are more interested in what men can DO for them than in being a partner who appreciates men for who they are.

I'm too tired to deal with it. [/quote]

So true! Spouses AM affair partner started out with the entire “just for excitement, never want to leave marriage” AM template.  Within a few meeting yo started expressing how much she hated her husband.  Over time she started getting upset AP wasn’t in sane have and happy at home.  Last few months she started talking about leaving her spouse for him.  That’s when AP got out, he was like wtf? U want to blend families and think teen boys are going to accept some strange  woman who was screwing their mom or her kids a man screwing their mom? Delusion.  He also was like zero desire to do any blended famil crap and going to get kids future weddings- and especially since he was really just doing it to blow a load.  She was looking for a rich guy as an exit out if her miserable marriage and so she could continue not working...and prob f@ck guys stay home when he left for the office in a few years.  Lol[/quote]

I’m not understanding this post. Is it just me? I’ve read it a few times.[/quote]

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