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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, what is the range of money needed to carry out an affair? Would a couple of hundred dollars a month be enough? just trying to figure out what my husband has been spending money on. He can't/won't tell me. He didn't come home with anything. He puts meals, coffee, etc on the credit cards.

The first time he did this he was also moody and distant. He was less interested in sex. He asked when I was going to go out of town. Some mornings he rushed to leave for work. He used to work late in the evenings even when I would ask him to come home early at least once a week.  I think he realized I was getting suspicious, so he stopped some of the behavior . I was starting to think I had imagined everything recently.

I would love to hear from other cheaters the details about how they managed their affairs. Afterall, maybe there is a logical explanation to his behavior. Asking for information from DH is impossible because he shuts down the conversation before Ican even ask a question.[/quote]

Depends. Is he cheating with prostitutes? I have no idea how much that costs. Do they need to go to hotels? That can add up. Does one of the work from home? Very easy place to meet. Are they willing to do it in a minivan or backseat of a car? Then it could give them unlimited options, and it is very inexpensive.

Can you not look at credit card bills? Does he have a secret credit or debit card?

The crankiness/moodiness (classic cheater, yes. But could also be he's moody)
The leaving early/staying late ... he may actually be at work because at lunch he goes to see his girlfriend. Or just seeing her before/after work (classic cheater, yes, but also could be an excess of work)
He asked when you went out of town (classic cheater, he wants to bring his GF to your place ... but it could also be that he cares about when you are there or not?)

The most I ever spent on cheating was the cost of lunch. And time off from work. No gifts, no hotels. That's asking to be caught![/quote]

The sneaky ones deal purely in cash or they buy a credit card gift card at the grocery store, gas station, pharmacy (so the charge will show from a legitimate place).  [/quote]

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