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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was a SAHM, had an affair, and got divorced. I don’t know why people think going back to work is a negative thing, I really enjoy working.

Life is definitely better now. Kids are with their dad 50% of the time so I actually have more free time now than as a SAHM. My ex controlled all the money, so even though I make less than him, my standard of living is higher. There’s no shortage of men to date. Life’s pretty good. [/quote]

You didn't have much free time as you were too busy juggling affairs.  [/quote]

PP here. Okay, this made me chuckle  :lol:

But no, I only had one, and it was very short-lived. I date regularly now and still have more free time. [/quote]

Was he married? Did he have kids? Did his wife contact you?  [/quote]

He wasn’t married and didn’t have kids. I have no interest in married men (and yes, I see the irony).[/quote]

At least you didn’t intentionally harm a woman and kids you did not even know.  I hold both parties 50% responsible and I will never understand how someone can live with themselves after inflicting severe pain and PTSD on someone they did not even know—and change the trajectory of the children’s lives.  It doesn’t matter if it could be anyone—it was you (not you pp).  Anyone who knows there are kids and a spouse and goes for it is an awful person, as much as the spouse.[/quote]

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