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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow! These are really small clueless and dumb things to say but they are small stuff. What are you doing to him that he is responding in kind? Not deflecting it on you, but meanness begets meanness in my experience. [/quote] Pls read Ops posts about the pattern of behavior, the spouses mental illness diagnoses, and the spouse’s childhood trauma. If OP was your best friend or sister, what would you tell her to do. Op, you should ask yourself that too. [/quote] Sometimes a jerk is just a jerk. There are people with mental issues-- depression, anxiety, whatever, or who have been through trauma-- and they do not turn into jerks. It seems like on these boards there are a lot of DH's who are given passes for being bad spouses. "He cheated on me for years but he had a bad childhood and has ADHD." [/quote]
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