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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here are a few examples of things that have happened lately:

1.) My daughter (3 years old) told me before bed one night that I was “the best mommy ever!” I relayed this story to DH, because DD has been a difficult 3 year old during quarantine lately. His response was that she’s only had one mom so maybe she doesn’t even know what that means.

2.) looking in the mirror, I said to him- “man, I’m glad I’ve finally lost the baby weight! But I wish this stretched out skin weren’t here.” (I’m 5’5 and 122 lbs). He looks at me and says, “that’s not skin, that’s fat. But you can eat better and go to the gym, maybe it will go away. Better than skin because you can’t do anything about that.”

3.) About to go down on me, he says- “are you about to get your period? It smells different.”  Obviously, I get super upset.

4.) Kissing, he says- “hey, do you have bacteria in your tonsils? Your breath is bad.” I do have crypted tonsils so will get tonsil stones, but I was still super mortified.

5.) Told our neighbor at dinner that I was glad our family dog died. To be fair, the dog was a jerk, but I definitely wasn’t glad he died!!! Of course I was sad. When I asked him to stop, he looks at me and sneers, “It’s OKAY, everyone knows you hated him”

I finally asked him to separate. This, and other issues, but I’m not sure I can get over these comments. He was “blindsided” according to him. He says those comments aren’t what he meant, and of course made a million excuses. Am I overreacting to them? [/quote]

All but the last one seems like factual information or an honest question. My husband is a straight shooter and would say most of these things and I wouldn’t get upset. I’d only be mad about the dog. [/quote]

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