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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting replies.

Man here, when men talk like this, if they do, the response from other men is "duh, who doesn't.". Meaning, all men want to have sex with other women but it doesn't mean he wants a divorce.  This is totally normal.

And no amount of focusing on a job or therapy will make that change.  Humans are wired for sexual variety.  The only solution, if you call it that, is to have a good sexual relationship with your spouse. But even then, the urge to cheat will always be with you, it's just a question of how strong it is.[/quote]

Speak for yourself. This is not representative of "all men."[/quote]

95% of straight men.  (It's probably 99% but I will grant you it could be lower).

Seriously though, it's near universal in men to want to sleep around, which is why men don't question their relationship merely because they want to have sex with other women.  That urge never leaves them no matter how madly in love they are.[/quote]

Another man here, I can explain it.  I have zero "urge to cheat."  I'm happily married and happily faithful.

If one day my wife came to me and was just like "hey, honey, I've been thinking and I'm really happy with you and still totally want to monogamous to you forever but if you'd like to go sleep around I have no problem at all and in fact I think it might be fun to meet your new friends" and I actually believed her and that it wouldn't bother her (which I never would, because she's a normal human being and so of course it would bother her later on even if she thought it wouldn't) then....

yeah, I'd be sleeping with different women like the next weekend.

So I basically agree with the PP.  So in theoretical world you'd like to have some rando sex.  Ok, so what?  Who wouldn't?

BUT YOU DON'T is the point.  Because you made a promise not to, and because ultimately your kids will suffer if you do (because it will likely destabilize your marriage and the kids will bear the brunt of that).[/quote]

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