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[quote=Anonymous]OP, divorced mom here. To answer your question about how to appear “exciting” to dates, what I look for is someone who has a passion for living life, who knows what makes him happy and carved out regular time to fit it into his life, even if work and kids means that it’s not exactly the way he’d like to do it. So you love hiking and have a favorite nearby place in the woods that you try to get to once a week? Or you’re a lap swimmer and are eagerly looking forward to your outdoor pool opening up so you can swim outside and hang with your swim buds on Sunday mornings while the kids sleep in? That’s the stuff I want to hear about. But if I hear a lot of “I used to do __ before kids” and no actual doing of anything now, then I’ll assume you’re depressed or uninteresting or not flexible and resilient, and I won’t be interested. [/quote]
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